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” That statement didn’t stem solely from insecurity or even modesty, but instead from the internalization of anti-Black sentiments I had heard my whole life.
Outside of what the media told me, I had numerous personal experiences with backhanded compliments from “well meaning white people.” These racial microaggressions—which are anything but micro—included: “you’re cute for a Black guy” or “you’re different from other Black people,” and “I don’t even think of you as really Black.” These comments work on the basis that I am an exception to my race; a part of the talented tenth—or in this case, the attractive tenth—and one of the “good Blacks.” I am given white approval by transcending the stereotype of how a Black person looks or behaves, and that is simply wrong on a personal, political, and psychological level.
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Society tells us that ‘white is right,’ not just in terms of intellect, but also in terms of beauty and anything else you can think of.
I was lucky enough to be raised by a pro-Black mother who affirmed the beauty and brilliance of my Blackness.
But despite our male privilege, the intersection of our Blackness and queerness exists in a society that privileges heterosexuality.Porn, on the other hand, included Black men, but only as the trope of the ‘Black brute’ or ‘thug’ with the “Big Black Cock (BBC).” I remember wondering if I was a twink because of my small size or an otter because of my body hair, only later realizing that porn categorized me “Ebony.” This is symbolic of larger issues within the LGBTQ movement that ignores the intersectional identity of being a Black gay man.Hearing how I decry respectability politics and seek to dismantle white supremacy, many people wonder how I began dating white men in the first place.Blackand White Dating is the perfect place for you to connect! Thousands of white women and black menhave been meeting on this site and created success stories of their own, not to mention the thousands of black women and white men dating and finding love on this website too.Black singles and white singles - that's what we do.
While my personal decision not to date white men is the direct result of dating white men, the decision is rooted less in my experience with the individuals I dated and more in my experience with society.